A Newcomers Guide to Masturbating with a Vibrator

We spoke to sex experts and sex educators to answer the biggest questions about these sex toys and break down the very best panty vibes for your (uniquely private) pleasure. For far too long, sex toys missed the mark, especially when it came to people with vulvas. Studies have repeatedly shown that people with vulvas need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but it wasn’t until 2014 that the first clitoral suction toy hit the market. These days many suction toys (also called clit suckers) have been designed by the people using them.

The narrow tip also makes this vibrator a great toy for partner play, as it leaves plenty of room for other types of simultaneous stimulation. There’s a mode to simulate licking, if an oral sex vibe is what you’re seeking. There are also several speeds and settings so you can zero in on the sensations you desire in the moment. “The Magic Wand is a classic in the world of vibrators, and for good reason, too viberator,” says Mariah Freya, founder of the sexual wellness platform Beducated. There’s a vibrator for every sexual preference, proclivity, and situation — some even simulate oral sex. And using one doesn’t just feel good, it’s actually good for your health.

With an insertable length of 5.5 inches and a total length of 7.3 inches, the Enigma Double Sonic is designed to reach deep within, stimulating areas that other toys might miss. The body-safe silicone exterior ensures a luxurious feel against the skin, while the USB rechargeable battery means you’ll never be caught short of power when the mood strikes. Are you trying to reproduce a specific feeling (intercourse? a blow job?) , or are you seeking a totally new sensation like vibration or texture? Do you prefer the control of holding the toy, or do you want a toy that leaves you hands-free?

The streamlined design is easy for first-time users to get the hang of and may appeal to folks looking for a solid vibrator without overcomplicated bells and whistles, they add. This prevents bacteria from staying trapped in your toy, even after you sanitize it. The best options are medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic, although you can also find toys made from borosilicate glass, quartz, and stainless steel. Editors also spoke with a sex and relationship expert to better educate readers on how sex toys may enhance relationships and the role that they may play when lovers are apart.

If you want vibration and air suction, try the newer Pro 2 Plus which combines both sensations. „If you look at the categories of vibrators, you can kind of pare down everything into wands, 'twice as nice’ and bullets,” says Coyote Amrich, director of purchasing and product development for Good Vibrations and Babeland. From bullets to air suction, these are the bestselling and highest-rated vibrators out there.

Rechargeable sex toys are better for the environment and your pocket, but bear in mind that you will have to wait for your toy to charge before use. This aesthetically pleasing two-in-one toy, which features a vibrating dildo and an external stimulator, was a big hit with testers. They said it was extremely straightforward to use and would make a great starter toy for couples who are new to sex toys.

Sam, the founder of a spicy audio membership club called Best Kept Secret, recommends the TENGA GEO Coral for men (or folks with penises) who want to be discreet and still have a good time. It has an oversized, flat tip that sits snugly against your G-spot, and unlike other internal vibrators, this one isn’t so big that you’ll have a hard time getting it in or out. If using lube, I do suggest a water-based lubricant to ensure everything slips in smoothly.